February 24, 2012

machistado:

dslovecraft replied to your photo: Why do otherwise lovely people have to make rape…

Because joking =/= condoning.

Joking = directly contributing to rape culture

All rapists think everyone else rapes and joking about the subject normalizes it in their minds. 

Stop it. 

Not only this, but what’s funny about such a joke? Seriously, what? Most jokes you can point out what makes it funny (it may ‘ruin’ the joke or whatever, but you can still do it). If you try and look at a rape joke and try to figure out what makes it funny, it’s not some sort of ‘shock value’ (that doesn’t make something humorous, god damnit), it’s not that they’re clever (that would imply originality, not harping on the same theme over and over) - the only thing that could reasonably be pointed to is a theme of ‘lulz, women suck, fuck them’. That’s the only thing that could possibly make such a joke funny, because it’s the only substance of the joke - and what’s funny about that?

The same goes for all the other, tired women jokes (about sandwiches, and ‘your place in the kitchen’, etc.). They just continually harp on that one, overused, pathetic, and harmful theme.

If you seriously want to say that there’s no connection between a society that condones a whole culture of jokes where the punchline is simply ‘fuck women’, and a culture that continually says ‘fuck women’ through its laws, its practices, its media, etc., then, well, fuck you. Seriously, if you can make that claim with a straight face, gain some damn cultural awareness. Because this is just annoying at this point.

  1. jylshaffer reblogged this from notforbesmag and added:
    A BEAUTIFUL answer. It’s totally true. Making the joke normalizes the behavior, both for those who commit the crime and...
  2. notforbesmag reblogged this from machistado
  3. sterwood reblogged this from machistado and added:
    Not only this, but what’s funny about such a joke? Seriously, what? Most jokes you can point out what makes it funny (it...
  4. anonemouse said: Or, because very few people other than those who have been raped or are very close to someone who has really understand what rape & rape culture are and what they do to victims - not that that’s any excuse, but I think it’s a large part of the reason
  5. buzzlightyearsu replied:
  6. peachersen said: actually joking = condoning what fucking planet does this person live on, and i don’t understand why any one would joke about rape in the first place ugh wtf is wrong with people
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